"Love Relationships" in the Development Office
The eHarmony Method
I think that eHarmony is brilliant! Not that I’ve found a love connection there (nor am I even on the site looking for love), but their commercial intrigued me when I learned that there are 29 Dimensions of Compatibility and that they’ve been defined. That got me wondering: "How many dimensions of capability are there for the planned giving relationship?"
I’ve spent my 25-plus year career seeking, prospecting, qualifying, cultivating and soliciting for planned gifts; and, like a great romance, have come to realize that compatibility, not just simple attraction is the key to finding the right match.
Be More Personal than Personal Ads
The e-Harmony website says that “determining compatibility through conventional dating methods could take months, or even years, of interaction between you and your potential partner…. We are committed to matching you with truly compatible [individuals] in order to provide you with the best online dating and relationship experience possible.” Isn’t that what we want too?
I’m convinced that prospect research, not the organizational CRM system, is the key to planned giving compatibility. If you’re a lonely prospect researcher, looking for a love relationship in the development office, I’d suggest you look to your planned giving professionals. They’re often lonely and feel misunderstood, bypassed in favor of the eye-catching major gift donor prospect with his or her fancy car, stately "McMansion" and confirmed asset holdings.
4 Easy Steps to Find the Right Match
While we won’t have time or space in this blog to consider 29 dimensions of compatibility (I’ll save that for a future white paper topic or conference presentation), we can review the simple steps to find the right planned giving match. Your current research, analytics project scores and giving history hold the keys:
Armed with your good research, your development office colleagues will joyfully reach out to the prospects you’ve identified and qualified and a love match all around is bound to develop.
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